My friends are always telling me I need to just relax and just let the natural aging take hold. They say it is crazy for me to excersize or keep my weight down. I have even had a few inhancing surgeries to remain youthful. I really want to tell them they could take better care of themselves but I just laugh it off but I work hard to maintain looking like I do. I am 40 and fabulous but I think my friends are picking on me for it. What should I tell them to make them give me a break?