I am a 44 year old woman. I am attractive enough in that I exercise regularly, eat well and practice yoga religously. I have so much more sexual energy than I have ever had, enjoy sex more than I ever have, and want it all the time. Why is it that most men do not see women in their forties as sexually desirable. While I may have been prettier in my 20's, I am a much better partner now.
Willing and waiting
Dear Willing and Waiting —
While it’s indeed true that many guys prefer form over function when it comes to chicks, at least where physical attraction is concerned, there are also plenty of other guys who roll the other way.
The truth is, darlin’ that there’s an ass for every seat in this world. That is an undeniable fact.
Perhaps it’s time for you to stop “waiting” for the universe to bring you the things you want and start getting proactive with your mental process. This can be done through creative visualization and positive affirmation.
Thoughts have wings, ya know, so it can even be a subtle form of self-sabatoge to make statements like, ”most men do not see women in their forties as sexually desirable.”
Affirmations like that have a tendency of forming our reality if they are repeated often enough, either verbally or mentally.
It’s only words, so why not try swapping your habitual negative statement for a positive one?
How about saying, “There are lots of men who find older chicks like me absolutely irresistible and I know there’s one out there looking for me right now.”
Try repeating something along those lines to yourself for awhile and see what happens!
Good luck and happy hunting!
